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Here Is Why Your Relationships Don’t Work; The Heat of Love & How to Make Your Relationship a Long Lasting Love Story

Renuka Gavrani
6 min readNov 28, 2022

I have been single since the day I am born. But all my friends (be it in school or college) were in relationships. And I don’t know if they were blind or what, but I could clearly see that their partner is not in love with them.

Or maybe judging from the outside is easier, right?

Single and Dancing

Well, I could have tagged myself as a judgmental person but believe it or not, my prediction about their breakup reason was always correct. Maybe I should get into astrology then?

Jokes, aside. Let’s see why relationships have become such a labor these days and how you can make your relationship work.

I believe that there could be hundreds of reasons why a relationship doesn’t work out but let’s see some common reasons why relationships have become a heavy weight for people that are drowning them.

1. The Heat of Love vs The Heat of Attraction:

After reading or watching a romantic movie, I take my time to stop daydreaming about the character. But I think some people keep on living in their dreamland they expect the same thing in reality.

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Renuka Gavrani
Renuka Gavrani

Written by Renuka Gavrani

I talk about slow & Intentional living - taking you closer to a happy life. I am a published author of the book 'The Art of Being Alone': https://a.co/d/531JIFq

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