I Am Not Ready to Accept, Apologise or Adjust; Why You Should Not Either

Do you know what makes you and me miserable? Do you know why you are not happy with what you have, who you are? Do you know why you are stressed and depressed even when you consume positive content daily?

Renuka Gavrani


Well, the answers cannot be summed up in one sentence but let’s see how you lost your capabilities to think and make decisions:

  • You are manipulated by society into believing that YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH for what you are.
  • You are manipulated into believing that accepting yourself is a form of self-love and
  • You are manipulated into believing that a happy life means adjusting to what you have

I am pretty sure after reading these 3 sentences, some people might want to throw eggs in my face but allow me to explain. Can you be open-minded for a while?

I am not here to tell you that you are not good enough nor am I asking you to hate yourself. And if you have read my articles before, you know that I always try to make my words feel like a soft kiss on the forehead.

Believe me, I am not here to make you feel bad but I consider it my responsibility to show you the truth (even if it’s bitter) and to tell you HOW you can get the best of everything. So, let’s start:

Everywhere you see on social media, be it on Instagram or YouTube, you will see how almost everyone is asking you to do things against your comfort zone, right? But at the same time, these are the same people who ask you to get comfortable with who you are and what you have.

These are the people who say “bab, get comfortable with your body, So, what if you are fat? So, what if you are skinny? All body types are beautiful.

I guess, our generation is probably the only generation that is making it famous to be unhealthy.

Now, I can see some people are actually grabbing their eggs to throw in the comment section but hear me out.

I am not saying that being fat or skinny is not beautiful nor am I asking you to hate your body just because it doesn’t…



Renuka Gavrani

Ghostwriter, open for projects. I talk about slow & Intentional living - taking you closer to your dream life. I wrote a book too, here: https://a.co/d/531JIFq