I Am Not Ready to Accept, Apologise or Adjust; Why You Should Not Either

Do you know what makes you and me miserable? Do you know why you are not happy with what you have, who you are? Do you know why you are stressed and depressed even when you consume positive content daily?

  • You are manipulated by society into believing that YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH for what you are.
  • You are manipulated into believing that accepting yourself is a form of self-love and
  • You are manipulated into believing that a happy life means adjusting to what you have

1. Create Your Own Customized Path:

Our world is getting smaller with the upgradation of technology. Hence, whenever we face a problem, we just go on YouTube and listen to a person who we don’t a shit about.

2. Don’t Shut Down Your Brain:

I wouldn’t ask you to stop listening to people altogether because there are plenty of great creators. However, just one small tip for you, listen to people but don’t shut down your brain.

3. Work on One Area of Your Life for the Rest of 2022:

Body type was just an example to explain to you the ugly side of media.

4. Don’t Adjust; Believe You Are Destined For the BEST:

Not knowing what you need to do to change your life is one thing but knowing everything that you can do yet not doing anything is pathetic. It creates a negative self-image in your mind about yourself. And then no matter how many videos you watch on self-love, you cannot change this image. Perhaps, this is the reason you still feel a void in yourself even when you have everything.

5. Don’t Apologize for Who You Are:

I have spoken enough about why you shouldn’t adjust and accept what you don’t like in yourself, be in your body, or any other part of your life.

Conclusion:

I know some people are going to hate me for writing this blog but trust me, I care about nothing more than showing the truth. My intentions as I said earlier are not to make you question yourself or hate yourself but rather to make you realize that you deserve the BEST & society wouldn’t let you have it. When you grow, it will be a problem for people because you are just going to increase the competition. Hence, they all try to make you feel comfortable with where you are so that you always remain a pretty barbie who can never be a threat.

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100K on Instagram. I talk about books, self-love, & self-improvement. For ghost writing gigs; renukawork1@gmail.com

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Renuka Gavrani

100K on Instagram. I talk about books, self-love, & self-improvement. For ghost writing gigs; renukawork1@gmail.com