Why I am Quiet & How It Is Improving My Life

How Silence Can Improve Your Life:

1. You Have a Skill:

One of the reasons why introverts lose their self-confidence and try to find dark corners to hide is because introverts are made to believe that there is something wrong with them. As if being silent is somehow disturbing others.

2. Practice Silence:

The silencehere doesn’t mean being quiet because you cannot speak confidently. The silence here means deliberately choosing to stay quiet even when you have the confidence and content to speak.

3. I am happy in my universe:

Didn’t I tell you how I was often asked to speak up? Well, if I recall those moments then I find a confused girl who is in her mind thinking what would be the best line to say at this moment?

4. Less Drama; More Gratitude:

I am honestly so grateful for the people I have in my life that I cannot express it. Yes, I don’t have a long list of friends but the handful of people that I have are mature and respect my opinions.

5. My personality Isn’t Attacked Anymore:

As I said when you are an introvert or you speak less, people force you to speak up or just make fun of you. This creates doubts in your mind about yourself and your overall personality which in turn, lowers self-confidence.


I hope after reading this blog you will learn to love your silence and your overall personality. Again, you don’t have to become quiet as if you don’t know how to talk, you just have to learn to accept the fact that you are not interested in speaking just because you have a tongue.



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Renuka Gavrani

Renuka Gavrani

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