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Why Leaving Is Important To Start A New Chapter of Life
You cannot heal in the same environment that gave you trauma.
Leaving is hard, isn’t it? Be it leaving the person you are in love with even though staying is killing you or leaving a place that is full of people who love you yet staying with them because it’s comfortable. Leaving an old belief that holds you back or leaving self-doubts.
No matter what it is you are holding onto, leaving always feels tough, and heart-breaking even if it’s killing you slowly day by day.
How is it possible that something so toxic can be comfortable to us?
I have spent most of my life wondering, ‘How can people stay in toxic relationships? Why do people not change into a good person for themselves?
I guess Shakespeare was right when he said, “Everyone can master a grief but he that has it”.
Why Leaving Is Hard?
It’s easy for me to sit here behind the screen and give you a checklist of what you should and shouldn’t do to live a better life. The Internet is loaded with advice, tips, and hacks. Everyone has something to say.
