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You Will NEVER Find the Right Person but You Can Do This to Make Your Life Rich

Why do you keep attracting the wrong people into your life?

Renuka Gavrani
6 min readMay 16, 2023
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I have been seeing those poetic posts on Instagram and social media (in general) that starts like this:

“You will find the right person who will hold you gently and love you deeply. You will find the right person who will make you believe in love again and kiss you like you are their universe.”

Okay, I am pretty bad at this stuff but you get the point, right?

So, here is the thing.

Firstly, these kinds of posts get lakhs of likes and comments, no matter how many times posted which shows how desperate our generation is to find the right person.

And secondly, it shows how delusional we are. Someone who doesn’t know a sh*t about you wrote some poetic words and you just created an imaginary bubble in your mind that ‘yes, someday I will find the right person who will know my worth.’

Oh, honey. I am sorry but you are being silly!

You won’t find the right person. You can never find the right person. Never. You become the right person.

The simplest truth about the universe is that you don’t attract the kind of people

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Renuka Gavrani
Renuka Gavrani

Written by Renuka Gavrani

I talk about slow & Intentional living - taking you closer to a happy life. I am a published author of the book 'The Art of Being Alone': https://a.co/d/531JIFq

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